LA Fitness guy in green shirt. Telling him that "sometimes the truth serves no purpose other than to hurt" is a cop-out and a lame one at that. Yes, sometimes the truth is painful. But like any other emotion, it passes. Withholding information from someone you supposedly is cowardly and selfish. By not revealing the complete nature of his sexuality to his wife, he denied her the right to make her own decisions, denied her the right to react as she sees fit, and he basiy decided that he would control how much she can take without any input from her.